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Nope: Saying No
with Grace and Grit

by Alicia D. Collins

This book is for the woman who’s tired of feeling guilty for choosing herself. It’s for the strong one, the fixer, the nurturer who’s learning to rest. You’re not alone. You’re not crazy for saying no.

  • Kischea T. - Peoria, AZ

    Nope! Saying No with Grace and Grit is an easy yet motivational read. I find that sometimes women of faith are not transparent when it comes to trying to juggle our real raw emotions while trying to still live by faith. The Author Alicia is very real and transparent about the struggles we face in this walk. I love how she ties the Women we admire in the Bible, their personal struggles and how they turned them into personal strengths. I find the reflection questions particularly helpful to record and have the option to revisit at a later stage in life to track personal growth. Over all this book has added to my knowledge, strengths, and my tool box for setting boundaries without guilt.”

  • Samantha F. - Casa Grande, AZ

    A Heartfelt Journey Wrapped in Honesty and Humor: Nope by Alicia Collins is one of those rare books that feels like a deep conversation with a wise, witty best friend. Alicia’s voice is refreshingly real—she doesn’t sugarcoat the tough stuff, but somehow still manages to make you laugh, reflect, and feel deeply understood all at once.

    This book is equal parts empowering and comforting. Whether you’re navigating life’s chaos, setting boundaries, or learning to say “no” without guilt, Alicia gives you the words and the strength to stand in your truth. Her storytelling is vulnerable and vibrant, making it impossible not to root for her on every page.

    If you’re looking for something that will inspire you, hold your hand through hard moments, and lovingly remind you of your worth—this book is it. It’s not just a read; it’s an experience.

    Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to be a part of your journey!!

  • Roselyn H. - District Heights, MD

    NOPE, Saying No With Grace and Grit," authored by Alicia Collins, is a highly valuable book. Alicia shares her extensive knowledge and experience to guide readers through the transition from saying YES to NO. She provides well-organized, step-by-step procedures to facilitate this change effectively. One key feature of the book is the inclusion of Bible verses in each chapter, which serve as references to help readers understand the reasons behind their actions and decisions. This book has the potential to greatly improve one's life by encouraging readers to follow each chapter and contemplate the associated Bible verses. I found it immensely helpful and intend to use “NOPE, Saying No With Grace and Grit” to assist me in saying NO more often. I encourage others to join me in this journey.

  • Melissa M. - Richmond, VA

    Alicia Collins shows us that saying no isn't selfish - it's essential. Her book "NOPE" breaks down the art of setting boundaries with both kindness and backbone. She calls this mix "grace and grit," and it's exactly what it sounds like: being firm without being harsh.

    The book is refreshingly practical. It walks you through spotting situations where you should say no, dealing with the guilt that often follows, and setting limits with everyone from your boss to your mother-in-law. But what makes it special is how it frames boundary-setting as an act of self-respect rather than selfishness.

    This isn't just another self-help book telling you to put yourself first. Instead, it's a guide to finding that sweet spot where you can take care of yourself while still being there for others. Alicia gets it - setting boundaries isn't about building walls, it's about creating healthy spaces where relationships can thrive.

    If you're tired of saying yes when you really want to say no, this book is for you. It's especially helpful for those of us who break out in a cold sweat at the mere thought of turning someone down. Alicia shows us that with the right tools, we can protect our peace without losing our humanity in the process.

About ALICIA

Alicia Collins is a faith-filled wife, mom, and woman of wisdom who knows the power of boundaries, grace, and a well-timed “no.” With years of experience navigating life with grace and grit, she brings heart, humor, and healing to every page.

Alicia is the author of Saying No with Grace and Grit, a soulful guide for women learning to protect their peace without apology. She believes boundaries aren’t mean, they’re holy.

What is Gracefully Bound

Illustration of a bee with a crown above its head

Gracefully Bound is more than just a phrase—it’s a whole posture, mindset, and movement. It represents the bold yet gentle act of living with intention, walking in purpose, and setting boundaries that honor both your calling and your capacity.

It’s the space where faith meets wisdom, kindness meets courage, and self-care meets you.

  • You know your worth. You move through life with clarity about who you are, whose you are, and what you are (and are not) available for.

  • You embrace boundaries as sacred. They’re not walls—they’re gates that protect your peace, purpose, and personal growth.

  • You walk in grace. You lead with kindness and compassion, even when you’re standing firm.

  • You carry grit. You are not afraid to disrupt patterns, disappoint expectations, or decline invitations that don’t align.